6 Destinations to Get Cute and Visit, But Know the Customs First

Traveling often involves taking a break from work or daily responsibilities, offering an opportunity to relax and recharge. Whether it’s lounging on a tropical beach or immersing yourself in the tranquility of nature, travel can provide a much-needed escape from the stresses of everyday life. It introduces you to new environments and experiences, breaking the monotony of routine. It can be thrilling to step out of your comfort zone and engage in exciting activities like hiking, scuba diving, or trying local cuisines.

Moreover, traveling allows you to explore new places, cultures, and landscapes. It offers the opportunity to discover hidden gems, historical sites, natural wonders, and unique experiences that you may not encounter in your daily life. It can also help you develop essential life skills such as adaptability, problem-solving, and communication.

Let’s take a look at six of the world’s top travel destinations and how to stay safe and “in custom” in each!

1. Paris, France:
– Safety: Paris is generally a safe city, but it’s always important to be cautious of pickpocketing, especially in crowded tourist areas like the Eiffel Tower, Champs-Élysées, and public transportation. Keep an eye on your belongings and use common sense.

– Etiquette: French people appreciate politeness, so it’s customary to greet with a “Bonjour” (good day) or “Bonsoir” (good evening) when entering shops, restaurants, or interacting with locals. Basic French phrases like “merci” (thank you) and “s’il vous plaît” (please) will be appreciated.

– Dress Code: Parisians tend to dress stylishly, so you may want to avoid overly casual attire. When visiting churches or religious sites, it’s respectful to dress modestly, covering shoulders and legs.

– Dining: Table manners are important in France. Keep your hands on the table, not in your lap, and wait for everyone to be served before starting to eat. It’s also polite to say “Bon appétit” before you begin your meal.

2. London, United Kingdom:
– Safety: London is generally safe, but like any major city, be aware of your surroundings and take precautions against pickpocketing, especially in crowded tourist areas like Oxford Street and the Underground (mind your belongings).

– Queuing: The British value queuing (waiting in line) and consider it impolite to jump ahead. Respect the queue and wait your turn.

– Tipping: Tipping is customary in restaurants, bars, and taxis. In restaurants, a service charge may already be included in the bill, but it’s common to leave an additional 10-15% if you’re satisfied with the service.

– Public Transportation: London has an extensive public transportation system, including the Underground (Tube) and buses. Remember to “mind the gap” when boarding or exiting the trains, and offer your seat to elderly or disabled passengers if needed.

– Respect for Royalty: If you visit Buckingham Palace or witness the Changing of the Guard, show respect for the British monarchy by following instructions from the authorities and refraining from any disruptive behavior.

3. Johannesburg, South Africa:
– Safety: Johannesburg, like any major city, has certain safety considerations. It’s advisable to avoid displaying valuable items, keep your belongings secure, and be cautious in unfamiliar areas, particularly at night. Stay informed about the current safety situation and follow local advice.

– Cultural Diversity: Johannesburg is a culturally diverse city. Respect for different ethnicities, languages, and customs is important. Engage with locals respectfully and be open to learning about their traditions and history.

– Wildlife: If you plan to visit game reserves or wildlife parks near Johannesburg, it’s essential to follow the guidelines provided by the park authorities. Keep a safe distance from animals, don’t feed them, and follow the instructions of your guides.

– Photography: Always ask for permission before taking someone’s photograph, especially in townships or rural areas. Respect people’s privacy and be sensitive to their wishes.

– Transportation: Use reputable taxi services or arrange transportation through your hotel. Avoid hailing taxis on the street, particularly at night. Uber is a popular and reliable option in Johannesburg.

4. Brazil (as a whole):

– Safety: Brazil is a diverse country with various safety considerations. While some areas are generally safe for travelers, it’s important to be cautious in certain cities and regions. Research and stay updated on the safety situation of your specific destination. Avoid displaying valuable items, be vigilant in crowded areas, and use reliable transportation options.

– Language: The official language of Brazil is Portuguese. Learning a few basic Portuguese phrases can be helpful in communication, as not everyone speaks English, especially in more remote areas. Locals generally appreciate the effort to learn and use their language.

– Cultural Etiquette: Brazilians are known for their warmth and friendliness. It’s common to greet people with a handshake or a kiss on the cheek (one kiss on each side), particularly in social settings. Politeness and respect for elders are valued.

– Dress Code: Brazil has a diverse climate, so dress accordingly. In beach areas and casual settings, light and comfortable clothing is suitable. In more formal situations or when visiting religious sites, modest attire is appreciated. Check for specific dress codes when visiting places of worship.

– Carnival and Festivals: If you’re visiting Brazil during Carnival or other festivals, be prepared for large crowds and vibrant celebrations. It’s advisable to take precautions to safeguard your belongings and stay aware of your surroundings, as pickpocketing can occur in crowded areas.

– Food and Drink: Brazilian cuisine is diverse and delicious. Try local specialties, but be cautious with street food and ensure it’s prepared in hygienic conditions. Tap water is generally not recommended for drinking; opt for bottled water. Caution should be exercised with alcohol consumption, and it’s advisable to drink responsibly and be aware of your surroundings.

– Nature and Wildlife: Brazil is home to stunning natural landscapes and diverse wildlife. When exploring national parks or engaging in eco-tourism activities, follow the instructions of park rangers or guides. Maintain a safe distance from wildlife and adhere to environmental protection guidelines.

– LGBTQ+ Travelers: Brazil is known for its LGBTQ+ friendly destinations, such as Rio de Janeiro and São Paulo. However, it’s important to exercise caution and be aware of local laws and customs, especially in more conservative areas of the country.

5. Dubai, United Arab Emirates:
– Safety: Dubai is generally considered safe for travelers. However, it’s important to be mindful of your belongings, especially in crowded areas and tourist attractions. Respect local laws and customs, and be aware that certain behaviors that may be acceptable elsewhere could be considered inappropriate in Dubai.

– Dress Code: While Dubai is a cosmopolitan city, it’s respectful to dress modestly, especially in public places and religious sites. Women should avoid wearing revealing or skimpy clothing, and men should avoid walking shirtless in public areas.

– Cultural Sensitivities: Dubai is a Muslim-majority city, and it’s important to respect Islamic customs and traditions. Avoid public displays of affection, especially in more conservative areas. During the holy month of Ramadan, it’s important to be respectful and avoid eating, drinking, or smoking in public during daylight hours.

– Alcohol Consumption: Alcohol is available in licensed establishments such as hotels and restaurants in Dubai. However, it’s important to consume alcohol responsibly and avoid public intoxication. Public displays of drunkenness can lead to legal consequences.

– Photography: When taking photographs, be cautious and respectful of people’s privacy, especially when photographing locals or religious sites. Avoid photographing sensitive locations, such as government buildings or military installations, as it is prohibited.

– Respect for Laws: Familiarize yourself with local laws and regulations in Dubai. Certain activities that may be legal or acceptable in other countries can be illegal in the UAE, such as public displays of affection, drug use, and offensive behavior.

6. Tokyo, Japan:
– Safety: Tokyo is generally a safe city for travelers. However, it’s always advisable to take standard safety precautions, such as keeping an eye on your belongings and being aware of your surroundings, particularly in crowded areas like Shibuya Crossing and public transportation.

– Etiquette: Japanese culture places a strong emphasis on politeness and respect. Bowing is a common form of greeting, and saying “arigatou gozaimasu” (thank you very much) is appreciated. It’s important to be mindful of noise levels and to avoid disruptive behavior in public spaces.


– Queuing: Japanese people value orderly queues. When waiting in line for public transportation, tickets, or attractions, be patient and wait your turn.

– Shoes and Slippers: In Japan, it’s customary to remove your shoes when entering someone’s home, traditional ryokans (inns), certain restaurants, and some temples. Look for shoe racks or follow the lead of others. Additionally, when using public restrooms, you’ll often find separate slippers to be used inside.

– Chopstick Etiquette: If you’re dining at establishments where chopsticks are used, there are a few etiquette points to keep in mind. Avoid sticking chopsticks upright in your rice, as it is reminiscent of funeral rites. Instead, rest them on a chopstick rest or the edge of your plate.

– Onsen (Hot Springs): If you plan to visit an onsen, a traditional Japanese hot spring, be aware that you’ll need to bathe naked. It’s important to follow the proper etiquette, such as washing thoroughly before entering the bath and not allowing your towel to touch the water.

– Public Behavior: Tokyo is a crowded city, and it’s important to be mindful of personal space. Avoid talking loudly on public transportation and be considerate of others.

-Cash Transactions: While credit cards are widely accepted in many places in Tokyo, it’s always good to have some cash on hand, especially for smaller establishments, local markets, and public transportation. Make sure to carry Japanese yen with you.

-Trash Disposal: Tokyo has strict rules for trash disposal. It’s important to separate your garbage into different categories, such as burnable, non-burnable, recyclable, and sometimes even specific categories for plastic bottles and cans. Familiarize yourself with the local guidelines and dispose of your trash accordingly.

-Public Baths: Tokyo offers public bathhouses called sento. If you plan to visit a sento, note that they are gender-segregated, and you’ll need to be comfortable being naked in communal bathing areas.

-Gift Giving: If you’re invited to someone’s home or wish to show appreciation to a host or friend in Tokyo, bringing a small gift is a thoughtful gesture. Traditional gifts such as omiyage (souvenirs) from your home country or high-quality local sweets are often appreciated.

-Train Etiquette: Tokyo’s train system can be crowded during rush hours. It’s important to line up properly on the platform, allow passengers to exit the train before boarding, and avoid talking on cell phones while on the train. Additionally, avoid eating or drinking on crowded trains, as it’s generally considered impolite.

-Temples and Shrines: Tokyo is home to numerous temples and shrines. When visiting these religious sites, be respectful of the customs and traditions. Dress modestly, speak softly, and follow any instructions or guidelines provided.

-Smoking Regulations: Tokyo has strict smoking regulations, and smoking is prohibited in many public areas. Look for designated smoking areas and avoid smoking in non-designated areas to avoid fines or penalties.

-Technology Usage: While Japan is known for its advanced technology, it’s important to be mindful of others when using your devices in public spaces. Avoid talking loudly on the phone or playing audio without headphones, as it can be considered disruptive.

-Language: Learning a few basic Japanese phrases, such as greetings and simple expressions, can go a long way in Tokyo. Locals appreciate the effort, even if they speak English, and it can enhance your interactions and experiences.

Remember, these are general guidelines, and it’s always a good idea to research and respect the specific customs and traditions of the places you plan to visit. Enjoy your travels!

Dr. Shekina Farr

Editor

Named among Atlanta's Power 25, Dr. Shekina Farr, Ed.D., is passionate about building confidence in women. A serial entrepreneur, she runs Formidable Woman®, the #1 confidence brand in the world, inclusive of her beauty company, Formidable® Woman Beauty, Formidable Woman® University and her signature publications—Formidable Woman® Magazine, Formidable Woman Beauty® Gazette, and Formidable Men™ Magazine. She has been featured by FOX, CBS, NBC, Black Enterprise, Forbes and more.